I think everybody has a partner with a habit or flaw they would like to eliminate, tweak or fix. So let’s play a game. You can now design your ideal mate. Pick from any of the traits described below and even add some you don’t see. Go wild. Create a list of all the positive traits you wish for in your mate. Your dream partner can now be assembled like ordering a new car.
It might be easiest to print the list so you can circle your favorites and add others.
Attractive
Intelligent
Sensitive
Interesting
Enjoys sex about as often as you do
Fun loving
Wants as many kids as you do
Great parent
Has interesting hobbies
Values good health
Enjoys their work
Likes animals
Honest
Loves you for who you are
Great sense of humor
Loves taking care of others
Gives you all the space you want when you want it
Sparkling conversationalist
Loves cooking for you
Enjoys the same foods, movies, music and sports
Manages money well and is great investor
Has the right amount of social and physical energy
Great travel companion
Has the same sense of adventure
Loves what they do professionally and the sky is the limit
Knows just how much to tease you
Trustworthy
Wants to talk when you do
Is interested in your day if you want to talk about it
Is willing to go to therapy (just in case)
