The Couples Institute

You can,
if you wish,
influence your partner to change
in ways that could
make your life
more comfortable.

However, can you really
change something
you don’t understand?

How deeply do you
know what your partner
fears
thinks
believes
hopes for
in the area you seek change?

Know these answers and you will both benefit.

If you do not
thoroughly seek
these answers
stop whining.

For most of us, this ain’t easy. Including me.

till next time,
Pete

P.S. What are some things your partner might fear, think, believe or hope for in the area you seek to change? Click “comments” under the title to share your ideas. Be sure to click “submit comment” so that your ideas get published.

P.P.S. If you really want to stop whining and improve your marriage, don’t miss my weekend workshop for couples, which takes place next month. Click couples workshop for more information including a free audio clip from a past workshop.

Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson, Founders and Directors of The Couples Institute, have been helping couples resolve issues and create strong, loving relationships since 1984. They have been featured on over 50 radio and television programs including "The Today Show" and "CBS Early Morning News." For information on their convenient, affordable membership program to click here to improve your marriage or relationship.