Dr. Ellyn Bader and
Dr. Peter Pearson
Questions for Couples to Reflect
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Questions for Couples to Reflect.
Do you believe that thinking about 3 questions daily could improve your relationship? We do. Hi, it's Ellyn and Pete. That's right. What do you think the result would be if your partner just thought about three questions every day? Could this small change on their part really make a positive impact on you and how you feel about them? Here are the three questions for your partner.
What is important to my mate?
Why is that important?
And what am I doing about it?
That's it, a daily reflection on these three questions.
Now think about this. Suppose both of you reflect on these questions.
What is important to my mate?
Why is it important to them?
And what am I doing about it?
What do you think the effects would be? We have heard some pretty amazing results. And when each of you begin thinking about what is important to each other and then start doing something about it, that is when you really start to notice progress because you are scratching each person where they itch. Think about it- till next time, with appreciation and respect, it's Ellyn and Pete.